Books

Schedule an Assembly

Breaking the Cycle of Violence

Through Forgiveness

Breaking the Cycle presents award-winning assemblies that feature personal stories of overcoming conflict through forgiveness. Our assemblies, whether in-person or live online, support your schools' social-emotional learning goals – and can come at no cost to your school, although donations are welcome. Our speakers present examples of core competencies such as  social awareness, relationship skills and responsible decision making from their own lives, which readily elicit discussion opportunities in the classroom.

Schedule an Assembly

“Experience is the best teacher but it is a school that only a fool would want to go to!”

—Hashim Garrett at New Heights Middle School

TESTIMONIALS

Social-emotional learning

A panel of dynamic speakers present solutions to:

  • Counteract school violence, bullying and racism
  • Recognize depression and suicide
  • Promote self-respect and respect for others

Schedule an Assembly

VIDEO

What is Breaking the Cycle?

Let our speakers help your students develop the foundational emotional skills needed to resolve conflict and build healthy relationships in today's challenging social environment.

VIDEO

How We Got Started

Colleen McVey of CFN Live interviews Heinrich Arnold, son of the founder of Breaking the Cycle, who speaks of his father's legacy.

Responses from

PS 28 Elizabeth NJ

IN THE NEWS

Robert Van Wyck MS 217Q

Tomorrow morning, October 30, we'll be at Robert A Van Wyck Middle School 217 in Queens, speaking to 300 7th grade students. Scarlett Lewis, whose son was murdered in the Sandy Hook school shooting will speak by video, and then Pat & AnnMarie D'Aliso will tell their story.

IN THE NEWS

Englewood on the Palisades

October 28 we were at Englewood on the Palisades Charter School. 120 7th grade students were interacting with our speakers on the topic of non-violent conflict resolution.

Question: What would you say if you  saw your son just once?AnnMarie: I love you. I love you. I love you

IN THE NEWS

Tenafly Middle School

Tenafly Middle School in Bergen County New Jersey, invited us to speak first to 300 sixth grade students and 600 7th-8th grade students in the second session on October 24th. Pat & AnnMarie D'Aliso and Hashim Garrett told their stories. This was our first assembly in Tenafly.

IN THE NEWS

2025 SNAP Conference

On October 7 Breaking the Cycle was at the 2025 State Narcotics Action Plan Conference at the Venetian in Garfield NJ, sponsored by the Bergen County Prosecutor's Office. Pat & AnnMarie D'Aliso told their story to 300 local mental health and addiction providers, local law enforcement officers, school administrators and counselors.

IN THE NEWS

Newburgh Free Academy North

On September 30 BTC was at Newburgh Free Academy North in Newburgh NY. Chief Williams and Pat & AnnMarie D'Aliso challenged 200 10th grade students to care for each other and resolve conflicts peacefully.

"You have choices in your life every single day. If one of you goes to get the help you need or gets help for a friend, then Patrick's life was not in vain. Stay safe and stay together." —Pat D'Aliso