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Breaking the Cycle of Violence
Through Forgiveness
Breaking the Cycle presents award-winning assemblies that feature personal stories of overcoming conflict through forgiveness. Our assemblies, whether in-person or live online, support your schools' social-emotional learning goals – and can come at no cost to your school, although donations are welcome. Our speakers present examples of core competencies such as social awareness, relationship skills and responsible decision making from their own lives, which readily elicit discussion opportunities in the classroom.
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“Forgiveness is the greatest gift you can give to yourself.”
—Hashim Garrett
Social-emotional learning
A panel of dynamic speakers present solutions to:
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VIDEO
What is Breaking the Cycle?
Let our speakers help your students develop the foundational emotional skills needed to resolve conflict and build healthy relationships in today's challenging social environment.
VIDEO
How We Got Started
Colleen McVey of CFN Live interviews Heinrich Arnold, son of the founder of Breaking the Cycle, who speaks of his father's legacy.
IN THE NEWS
Ellenville Jr/Sr High School
Ellenville asked us to do two assemblies on December 12, one in the morning for 312 7-9 grade students, and at 1pm for 337 10-12 grade students. The Scarlett Lewis video was well received, then former police chief Charlie Williams told how he recovered from a childhood marred by alcoholism.
Remember: One life only... that's what we all have...one life only! —Ulster County DA Emmanuel C. Nneji
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Sonia Sotomayor School #25
December 9 found the team at the Sonia Sotomayor School #25 in Elizabeth NJ, speaking to hundreds of middle school students all sitting on the gym floor. First up, we showed a video of Scarlett Lewis telling about her son Jesse, who was murdered in the Sandy Hook school shooting. Then Hashim Garrett, shot at age 15, gave them some advice.
Make sure you stay away from guns. It only takes one second and life can change. —Hashim Garrett
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Temple Hill Academy
December 4 the team set up at Temple Hill Academy in New Windsor NY, part of the Newburgh City School District. Pat & AnnMarie D'Aliso and Hashim Garrett spoke to 200 7-8th grade students about suicide prevention and non-violent conflict resolution.
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Heritage Middle School
Heritage Middle School in Newburgh NY asked us to speak on December 3, 2025. Pat & AnnMarie D'Aliso and Hashim Garrett told their stories to 200 8th grade students. An eleven-year-old child had been shot recently in the school district and Hashim, who had been shot at fifteen, gave advice about how to respond.
"When you think about revenge you may as well dig two graves, because your life is over. Forgiveness is the greatest gift you can give to yourself." —Hashim Garrett
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Abraham Lincoln School #14
The morning of November 24 the team was at Abraham Lincoln School in Elizabeth NJ, speaking to 300 6-8 grade students. Pat & AnnMarie D'Aliso and Chief Charlie Williams told their stories to illustrate the consequences of bullying.
"When we suffer pain, trauma...our bodies remember. No one told me that by hating my mother I was hurting myself. The pain and anger inside you can change you slowly and turn you into someone you never intended to be." —Charles Williams