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Breaking the Cycle of Violence

Through Forgiveness

Breaking the Cycle presents award-winning assemblies that feature personal stories of overcoming conflict through forgiveness. Our assemblies, whether in-person or live online, support your schools' social-emotional learning goals – and can come at no cost to your school, although donations are welcome. Our speakers present examples of core competencies such as  social awareness, relationship skills and responsible decision making from their own lives, which readily elicit discussion opportunities in the classroom.

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“I think we learn the most from imperfect relationships - things like forgiveness and compassion.”

—Andrea Thompson

TESTIMONIALS

Social-emotional learning

A panel of dynamic speakers present solutions to:

  • Counteract school violence, bullying and racism
  • Recognize depression and suicide
  • Promote self-respect and respect for others

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VIDEO

What is Breaking the Cycle?

Let our speakers help your students develop the foundational emotional skills needed to resolve conflict and build healthy relationships in today's challenging social environment.

VIDEO

How We Got Started

Colleen McVey of CFN Live interviews Heinrich Arnold, son of the founder of Breaking the Cycle, who speaks of his father's legacy.

Responses from

Newburgh Free Academy West

Newburgh, NY

IN THE NEWS

Nutley High School 9 & 10th

October 23 was busy as we gave two assemblies at a high school in Nutley NJ. Pat & AnnMarie D'Aliso spoke to 600 freshman and then the sophomores, followed by Scarlett Lewis by video. The theme of the morning was how forgiving those who have hurt you can change your life.

"I realized that it would be my choices from this moment going forward that would determine what our lives would look like. And I chose joy."—Scarlett Lewis

 

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Windsor Prep High School

Hashim Garrett spoke at Windsor HS on October 21, telling about being shot at age 15: "As I lay in that hospital bed, that was the first time I had to ask myself for forgiveness for making poor choices. I'm asking you to stop beating up on yourself and forgive yourself. Find something to be grateful for."

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Dover Middle School

On Friday, October 16 the team was at Dover Middle School in Dover Plains, NY speaking with 300 6-8th grade students. Pat & AnnMarie D'Aliso and Chief Williams told their stories and shared important life skills with the students.

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Woodrow Wilson MS

Pat & AnnMarie D'Aliso spoke to 300 7th grade students at Woodrow Wilson Middle School in Clifton NJ about looking after each other's mental health, on October 7, 2026. Hashim Garrett followed up with his story and emphasized the importance of forgiving.

“Many people have used forgiveness for big and small things in their lives and you can too." —Tim Maendel, Program Director

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Minisink Valley Middle School

On September 25 Pat & AnnMarie D'Aliso and Chief Williams spoke to 275 8th grade students in Minisink Valley.

What works for me f you're hurting...do something for somebody else. Hold the door open, carry the groceries for someone. When you go home today ask your loved ones what you can do for them. —Chief Williams